By What Makes a Woman Attractive to a Man?
By irevealinglight
1. Her sense of humour
Don’t kill the fun-wire of your relationship by being staid. A little humour has never hurt anyone and men like women who can lighten up, laugh at their jokes – funny or not – and not always take things or themselves too seriously.It’s a quality that draws men like a magnet and they enjoy being in the company of such women. Not that it’s a license for men to be promiscuous but imagine a man having had a good laugh with a female colleague or friend after work, only to get home and be met with the stony or stoic disposition of his wife. He would wish he had stayed longer at the office.No matter how crappy your day turns out, open your eyes to see the silver lining of that day.2. Her sexual appeal
This is a mixture of a lot of qualities: beauty, charm, essence, poise, playfulness, intelligence, and confidence etc. It’s also no.1 on the list for most men even though they won’t readily admit it because they don’t want to be misinterpreted.It might not be a norm but it’s undeniably accepted that ‘men are moved by what they see’. Now, that is not to say they should be seen as unbridled libertines – no. Most men are just enthralled by the feminine and alluring quality of a woman. This sexual appeal is more than the buxom body of a woman too. It can be the way she talks or reasons or walks, or the poise and confidence she exudes – it means different things to different men. Even the wisest man that ever lived said he could not understand the “way of a man with a young woman.”It was this sexual appeal that the first man, Adam, saw in Eve that ignited his senses and loosened his tongue. Before then you didn’t hear Mr Adam say much, even when he was giving the animals names. But as soon as he sighted Eve his vocab started flowing with ease and excitement – “Whoa! This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called woman…” So, sexual appeal is a striking quality that makes a woman attractive.3. Her smile and confidence
Nothing draws a man more than a genuine and comforting smile from a woman. It’s both appealing and revealing. It appeals to his natural senses and it reveals her heart to him.Now I’m not talking about the smile that wants to disarm or seduce a man for selfish purposes but the genuine smile. For instance, a wife welcoming her husband with a heartfelt smile after a tiring day at work – with no ulterior motive of course! A smile that says it all – I love you and I’m here for you if you need me. A smile that tells him – My woman doesn’t need anyone to validate her; she is confident in her own skin!4. Her care and listening skills
It’s really true that “Nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care.” Women who care are attractive to men. They care enough to ask – how was your day? They care enough to fill the tank of the car with gas and not wait for the man to discover the tank is empty by the time he hits the road. They care enough to keep the kids quiet while they work on some important project. They care enough to know their partner or husband is in need of extra cash and they support – his ego most times would not let him ask. They care enough to keep a warm meal waiting for the man and not always expecting their partner or husband to bring Chinese takeaways or take them to some fancy restaurant 5 out of 7 days. They care enough to listen, even when their man just wants to vent. They just care enough!5. Her humility
Most men are attracted to modesty and meekness in a woman. No man desires an “I know better than you”, “battling on all fronts”, or arrogant type of woman. A man will always avoid a gabber or a blabber but run into the arms of one that thinks before speaking. He loves her outspokenness but not if she’s too garrulous.6. Her vulnerability
So far it is not to the extreme, men like women who are not afraid to be vulnerable. A man would want his partner or wife to know she can depend on him and not try to compete or be the man in the relationship just because they happen to put on pants or trousers! He wants his woman to confide in him and share her feelings too.7. Her resourcefulness
A woman is endearing to a man when she is resourceful. Originality works like magic with men. No one is crazy about having a copycat as a partner or wife. They want a woman who stands out from the multitude of women because of her creativity, originality and witty imagination. A Proverb 31 woman is sure to be attractive to any man.8. Her calmness
Calmness not coldness. They are two different words. Coldness is synonymous to being frigid – like the queen of ice. Nothing thrills her – not humour, not gifts, not surprises, not praises or acknowledgements and definitely not the idea of making love. A calm woman is level-headed and composed even in the midst of a stormy or challenging situation. All hell can be breaking loose but she reassures her man with her serenity.9. Her ambition
Ambition in a woman may repel some men but it would most definitely attract strong men to them. These strong men are attracted to women who are go-getters, women who know what they want and pursue it zealously.So, there you have them. Even if you don’t have these listed qualities and more not mentioned here as a woman or wife, such qualities can be developed or learnt by any woman. It is also good to discover what the man in your own life finds attractive, and when you discover it – keep it up! All the best!**
Efe Lisa IfezuoAuthor of Love is Not the ProblemDiscover more from Feminine Digest
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